Knitting on Island Time


View of the Salish Sea

In British Columbia, the light lingers until late at this time of year. In fact, last night when I tucked into bed slightly after 11 pm, I could still see well enough to make out a small skiff sailing towards the harbor. It reminded me of a teenager sneaking in through his bedroom window – long after curfew.

I am on Pender Island at a knitting retreat. Yes – a knitting retreat. No – I do not knit.

The house I share with 15 others is perched high on a precarious-looking bluff. I tread carefully around the edges of the property – I am scared of plummeting down the craggy chasm – but photographing the view is worth some degree of risk. The Salish Sea swirling through evergreen Gulf islands – and on the eastern horizon, the Olympic Peninsula in Washington – must be one of the world’s most stunning panoramas.

Sailing the Salish Sea with Mount Baker in the background

My aunt is the coordinator of the “Knitting on Island Time Knitters’ Retreat”. That’s right – Auntie Alice who many of my Merida friends have gotten to know over the years

She founded the annual event 17 years ago, and now her daughter, Dani is her energetic accomplice.  Christian Bock is the chef whose delicious entrees and baking are probably putting a pound a day onto my hips. He is a family friend from Freiburg, Germany where my grandfather attended university at the turn of the 20th century.

The Knitters’ Circle

At the retreat, I knew I’d see my friend Marianne who lives around the corner from our college in Merida. But what a surprise to meet Leslie from Alberta – she and I have a mutual friend who also lives in Yucatan. Then there’s Cheryl, another of the participants – she lives in my old North Vancouver neighborhood – just five houses away from where I grew up. Talk about six degrees of separation.

Before I came to Pender Island, I wondered why on earth a group of women who knit would travel such a distance to spend a week with one another. Besides the ones from Mexico, Alberta and BC, there are women here from Oklahoma, Alaska, Washington, and California – they have knitting in common – how much can there be to talk about?

Well, after four days, I no longer ask that question. It turns out that knitting is much more complex than I imagined. There are special wools, yarns, fibers, needles, hooks, and spindles used for each type of knitting. The women discuss these topics for hours on end. Some of the participants even spin their own yarn. They happily spend all day discussing the merits, attributes, and foibles of their craft.

In an effort to help me understand the complexities of knitting, Cheryl lent me a book – “The Knitting Goddess” by Deborah Bergman – I was hooked when I read the first lines on the inside of the dust jacket:

Beautiful knitting begins with beautiful stories.

And at that moment, I understood. I realized that story telling is at the heart of knitting. As the women talk about their experiences with various materials and patterns – secrets unfurl and wisdom is shared. And they knit this into every one of the sweaters, scarves, socks, pot holders, baby blankets or whatever they create. Each piece is unique – it can be anything from warm and fuzzy to coarse and scratchy. Just like stories.

Knitting seems to promote gentleness and peace. It fosters communication and understanding. It appears that these knitters are onto something – maybe our world’s  “leaders” need to take up knitting?


Published by Changes in our Lives

I am originally from Canada but have lived in Mexico since 1976. My husband is from Merida, Yucatan and we raised our family here. We both worked for many years at Tecnologia Turistica Total (TTT), the tourism, language and multimedia college we founded for local and international students. Now retired, we enjoy spending time with family and friends, My other interests include reading, painting, cooking and travel.

24 thoughts on “Knitting on Island Time

  1. I am a dedicated knitter and have been thinking for quite some time about starting a knitting retreat here. I usually knit alone and send my creations to the north to be enjoyed by friends in colder climes.


  2. Im thinking of joining this retreat next year! Sounds perfect to me! When I checked this year it was full!



      1. Hi Joanna, I have already been in touch with her. She will have me on her list now. Thanks!


  3. Dear Joanna,

    Thanks for your entry! Happy that you are enjoying yourself and finding your way… and knitting is such a rich metaphor for how we live our lives… muchos abrazos. José


  4. My mother taught me to knit before I was even 7 years old .. my first sweater I did when I was just 8 …. since then I made lots of things but then I found it did not really relax me as I was intent on finishing a row so I could start the next .Needless to say I gave up much later in life and pursued other things…. My mothers knitting was so neat and tidy her knitting looked like it had been done on a machine …. Ah I remember when the first knitting machine came out… one of my aunts bought one and she showed me how to use it … but I never did buy one .
    Have fun and know you are missed in the Yucatan … hugs


    1. Thank you Valerie. I saw a bit of what you shared about knitting. Some of the women her were pretty intent on finishing their projects… but by and large the knitting seemed to really ease their minds.


    2. Valerie maybe try it again you might find it relaxing. I certainly do! I also knit the whole time I’m in Chicxulub.

      Cheers Andrea


  5. My grandmother taught me to knit when I was about 7 years old. I didn’t really knit during my teens but I picked it up again in my mid 20s. I’ve been knitting just about ever since. There’s something calming about knitting. It also keeps the brain working, learning to decipher patterns and learn new techniques.

    Most people like to create something even if they don’t consider themselves to be artistic or creative. Cooking, baking, sewing, painting, writing, or various needle work, there are so many places to pour out one’s flair.

    Glad you are enjoying yourself in B.C.


    1. Thank you Joanna. Many of the women at this retreat share your sentiments. They say the hand work calms them. They too feel knitting is a creative pursuit that gives them great satisfaction. And like you, they typically tend to have learned to knit between 7 and 10 years of age.


    2. Joanne, I totally agree with you! I’m never not Knitting. Ravelry keeps me organized, which I’m sure you use. I’m listed under my last name Ohuiginn.

      Cheers Andrea


      1. I’ll look for you on Ravelry, Andrea. I see you come to Chicxulub. We live year round in Progreso. I have knit for local people, they appreciate hats and slippers for the cooler winter months.


  6. Your retreat makes me think back to all those women from the International Women’s Club sitting around tables quilting away all those many years ago. The lovely result was the Merida-themed quilt still on display at our meetings. The quilt bears witness to so many of those women’s amazing life-stories, too.


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